Love and Compatibility

Whether you are looking for or found someone... you want to know if you are compatible. Love and compatibility don't always go together...remember the saying...opposites attract? So - I guess that means we tend to pick partners that aren't compatible to us. But guess what?!...Chances are the more compatible - the easier your relationship will be.

Of course if one likes sports and the others likes reading... it might not cause any conflicts - but just think how much fun you could have if you both liked sports!!

But just like some compatibility issues are small and won't likely matter... some can be big and will definitely have an impact on your future! So I have listed the most important (in my opinion) compatibility questions to think about.

Compatibility Questions

1. Finance. How important are financial issues to you? Are you a saver or a spender? Is work and financial stability important to you?
2. Family. How important is family? Have children? Want children? Spend Holidays with family?
3. Faith. Is your faith a big part of you? Are you willing to change to participate in a faith you were not raised in?
4. Activity. How active are you? Is a great time to you sitting in front of the TV? Are you willing to do the things your partner wants to do?
5. Physical Intimacy. How important is a physical relationship to you? Are you a "touchy-feely" or a "hands off" kind of person? How often do you want or need sex?

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